In memory of LoneWolfX1X

Jen · Post by **Jen** » Wed May 12, 2004 7:54 am

His Final Post

LoneWolfX1X Goodbye, And Thanks

RIP LoneWolfX1X

a moment of silence for a friend

Jen

dadx2mj · Post by **dadx2mj** » Wed May 12, 2004 10:45 am

Originally posted by VidmanII
That's fvcked up. Had a good friend of mine pull the same shait just before Christmas last year. Pisses me off.

Wow aren't you the sympathetic friend.

I remember Lonewolf and always thought of him as one of the good guys. Hopefully he has found peace on the other side. R.I.P Lonewolf

dadx2mj · Post by **dadx2mj** » Wed May 12, 2004 11:04 am

Originally posted by VidmanII
You can see it your way, I'll see it mine. Sorry but suicide ain't the answer.

I never said suicide was an answer to anything. Maybe I took your post wrong but you made it sound like he wronged you as you put it "It pissed me off". To me a true friend would have more compassion. Enough thread highjacking

R.I.P LONEWOLF

Red Dawn · Post by **Red Dawn** » Wed May 12, 2004 11:38 am

Originally posted by VidmanII
That's my point. They DO wrong their friends and family when they take their own lives. That's what friends and family are for.......someone to reach out to when the pressures seem to be insurmountable.

I have been and will continue to be compassionate towards people I care about. Pretty hard to so tho when they decided to cash it in. eh?

Suicide ends the pain for one buts starts the pain for all those who knew that one who cashed it in. It's probably the most selfish act a person can commit.

Still I find it hard to be angry at someone who is in so much despair that the only way they see out of it is to kill themselves.

RIP Lonewolf

MAC · Post by **MAC** » Wed May 12, 2004 1:54 pm

Originally posted by VidmanII

Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. [snip]

Dyin's easy.

Livin'.............and all the problems that come with it, is the challenge we all must deal with and face.

I have never seen this said better. I wish more of these young people who are taking their own lives would realize this. Yeah, things may be bad right now, but they can always get better. It may not be easy and it may take a while, but it will happen.

blade · Post by **blade** » Wed May 12, 2004 2:32 pm

Vidman do NOT post anymore in this thread!

This is for his memory, not to insult him. please

Karchiveur · Post by **Karchiveur** » Wed May 12, 2004 3:10 pm

All I can say at the moment is Goodbye, Ken.
I'll reply more later.

Busby · Post by **Busby** » Wed May 12, 2004 3:20 pm

http://www4.citizen.com/news2004/April2 ... 26_04c.asp

A link from the Arsclan forum.
Also, the thread at ArsClan for the memories has some posts about LoneWolf and one from his sister.

RIP LoneWolf.

nexus_7 · Post by **nexus_7** » Wed May 12, 2004 3:50 pm

I just dont know what can possess someone to kill them selves, it is about the most selfish thing a person can do.

That being said, I am very sad for his family and anyone he had any interaction with as it will hurt them the most and by far the longest.

Sorry to see you go man.

Greg

CaterpillarAssassin · Post by **CaterpillarAssassin** » Wed May 12, 2004 4:47 pm

I'll miss ya lonewolf...

here is his sister's post.

Originally posted by lonewolf'ssister
kenneth mccarthy

I'm not sure if this will be seen by any of you out there but this is ken's sister we were given a copy of the threads concerning ken and I would like to say thank you to all of you this is very hard on all of us here at home. here is a little info on ken.
1) he was my younger brother three years younger then me.
2) he was a dedacated uncle to my daughter who is 5, when she was told that uncle died she said that she didn't want him to be dead.
3) we have a younger sister who is 12 she is taking this hard even thow she dosent know details.
4) we have now 20 grandkids in the family.
5) he has always been anti social.
6) he didn't tell us goodby so for thoes of you who are angry at him thy being us.
mom is pissed that he sent the threads to you and not so much as a note to us.
7) I could kill him for doing this to us , my daughter and I were in the next room.
8) for any of you who are asshole enough to do this to your familys make sure that they are not the people to find your body.
If you have any questions about Ken you can e-mail me at meganandrachael@hotmail.com I know i'm probly breaking some rules here but I don't really care.
Megan

b-man1 · Post by **b-man1** » Wed May 12, 2004 7:15 pm

i am also sorry for the hardship his selfish act imposed on his family. it is a shame he did not seek help from someone.

PreDatoR · Post by **PreDatoR** » Wed May 12, 2004 9:59 pm

jesus... too many people do this shit anymore. only time i could see suicide being an option is when you are terminally ill and can't be cured. I see it fine if you want to end it so you don't have to suffer. But those who do it just cause life is to tough. i don't have any sympathy towards it. I am however sympathetic to the family that has to deal with this. Been there done that and seen how a family got torn apart over it. When you've got friends and family around why not seek some help if you have problems? i just don't get it....

blade · Post by **blade** » Thu May 13, 2004 8:48 pm

I had hoped this would be a thread honoring a nice person we all knew. I just can't fathom bashing someone who was so down that he killed himself. Calling him 'selfish', and an a$$hole'? :; That's cold-hearted.

Well, he's dead so he can't defend himself. Guess he's an easy target now.

Going by what his seester posted, it seems to me that perhaps she and/or other family members added to his down feelings. Calling him anti social and an a$$hole?

I feel nothing for that seester. Not after her comments. I take that as she feels some blame, so she tries to deflect it by bashing him. I don't know but since some of you have presumed, so have I. It isn't like one would kill themself just to hurt a family member.

When one is feeling that bad, yes they are thinking only of themself. They feel things are so hopeless, that they are a burden and that others would be better off without them. And they just can't cope anymore. When they are that low, it's almost impossible to ask for help. Who would one ask? Perhaps he tried and was insulted. Perhaps he felt things were beyond any help. The point is, we don't know.

I had a friend who's wife cheated on him and they divorced. She won most of what he had and the results pretty much destroyed him. I saw him falling a part and tried hard to be a friend to him. After the last court date when his cheating wife won even more from him, he overdosed and died. I saw how he was destroyed and the feelings he was feeling. He did seeek help. Obviously it didn't work.

just rambling..

In any case, may peace be with you Ken.

But please guys. If you have only bad to say, then please don't say anything (make another thread if you must). I believe we owe Ken that.

dadx2mj · Post by **dadx2mj** » Thu May 13, 2004 9:00 pm

HERE HERE blade well said. Not to beat this to death but to call it selfish is ...well in my opinion just selfish

REST IN PEACE LONEWOLF hopefully you are in a better place and at peace now

Jen · Post by **Jen** » Thu May 13, 2004 9:17 pm

very well said blade

from what i have read of kens last post he was most sad inside. perhaps he did ask for help and nobody was there to listen? i only wished he had reached out to me for i would have listened

in our darkest moments we do what we have to do to end the pain . for some they have support they need , family , friends etc. others turn to other things to help them with thier pain.

hurts much to see him go , i only know he had to what he felt was best for him

hugs

Jen