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Hello everyone.

Postby Invisible Evil » Sat Jul 25, 2009 7:52 am

Hey guys,

I'm just checking in I havnt been around in a while. I have had some pretty crazy life events going on and just havnt had much time to do anything.

My wife and I relocated to Little Rock, AR last October which really set us for a loop, finally getting back on our feet from that.

Then my dad became very ill.
about 3 months ago he took Bacterial Meningitis, it almost killed him...He was 69 years old when it hit him...
I stayed in Shreveport with him and my mom pretty much throughout the ordeal.

Then he had a massive heart attach. This led him to having to have a quad bypass. After this he started rehab and started getting better.

Then Sunday July 19th the meningitis came back...This time he wasnt able to fight it. My father died from it.. He was 70 Years old.

I am still not wrapping my mind around this..

----- I am not here for sympathy. I just wanted to let you all know I didn't abandon PCA I just have been so stretched thin.
Now It looks like Ill be more but will be on here posting just to get my mind off things. I will be traveling back and forth home pretty regularly as my MOM needs helps badly. Dad was the only source of income through SSI, since he died she doesn't get that and she is not quite old enough to draw it herself.

This is a big mess.

I have lost contact with all of you, I don't even have phone numbers anymore.

Hopefully I can reconnect and be around some more.

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Postby eGoCeNTRoNiX » Sat Jul 25, 2009 10:09 am

Hey Dean,

I'm really sorry to hear this. I know how hard it is. I lost my mom in March she died from Lung Cancer at 53. If there's anything I can do to help, please don't hesitate to ask.

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Postby FlyingPenguin » Sat Jul 25, 2009 4:40 pm

My sympathies for your loss. Good to see you back, just sorry it's under sad circumstances.
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Postby NubyCanuby_OFC » Sat Jul 25, 2009 9:07 pm

Sorry to hear about your father.

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Postby normalicy » Sun Jul 26, 2009 12:02 am

Sorry to hear. Guess it's about that time for all of us. My mother died this Christmas & I completely relate. I really just didn't want to communicate because I was worried that I'd just blab all stupid like. Nice to see you back.

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Postby wvjohn » Sun Jul 26, 2009 8:02 am

Sorry about your Dad. Just keep doing the best you can and things will work themselves out. This ol' bunch of lunatics is always around.
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Postby renovation » Mon Jul 27, 2009 6:03 pm

sorry about your dad dean. and all the other problems life has tossed you as of late. hope all is better now for you and the wife. im in florida right now till the middle of the week . your friend reno.
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Postby Invisible Evil » Tue Jul 28, 2009 11:45 am

Thanks for all the nice comments.

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Postby Hipnotic_Tranz » Thu Jul 30, 2009 7:42 pm

I'm very sorry for your loss and this troublesome time. I can't begin to know what you are going through, but I offer my sympathy. Glad to see PCA is able to let your mind get away from it, if only for a second or two.

I wish you and your family all the best.
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Postby nitro237 » Sat Aug 01, 2009 7:57 pm

Hey Dean, sorry to hear about your Dad. Anything I can do for you around here, just let me know. I really don't mind.


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Postby Pikachu » Tue Aug 04, 2009 1:16 pm


Sorry to hear about the loss, death is never easy brother. Hope everything is getting better for you though. If you need anything don't hesitate (when I'm in the states, you got free reign).


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