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Re: The doctors have run lots of tests on me and the news is not good.

Posted: Tue Apr 23, 2019 9:32 pm
by darcy
Keeping up w/you on FBk,,, glad you're doing better :)

Re: The doctors have run lots of tests on me and the news is not good.

Posted: Sun Jun 23, 2019 10:55 pm
by darcy
Elmdea has asked me to let you know what is going on with John.
Please keep him in yours prayers,,

( "Loretta - thank you. I know PCA has been an important part of John’s life. Could you let the other members know what’s happening?" )

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"Dear ones,
John is not doing well. Please pray, meditate, journey, think of him.
Radiation kicked his butt, and he didn’t have a whole lot left in him to kick. He’s eating and drinking less and less and sleeping about 23 out of every 24 hours. He’s lost 10 pounds in the past 10 days. He’s been living on Ensure Enlive and ginger ale for weeks. Today, he hasn’t drunk any Ensure. He did receive a litre of IV saline and has drunk close to a can of ginger ale.
He’s experiencing some confusion and the “lines” between past, present, and future are getting pretty fuzzy. One example: he reported watching something with our house maintenance that hasn’t happened yet, but will in the next few weeks.
I asked for a referral to Hospice and they came out today for an initial interview. I’ll hear more tomorrow.
I’ll keep you posted.
Thank you for being John’s friends and for loving him."

Re: The doctors have run lots of tests on me and the news is not good.

Posted: Mon Jun 24, 2019 1:17 am
by Genom
Sorry to hear things are not going well.

Re: The doctors have run lots of tests on me and the news is not good.

Posted: Mon Jun 24, 2019 6:03 am
by reno
even more prayers for john and his whole family !

Re: The doctors have run lots of tests on me and the news is not good.

Posted: Mon Jun 24, 2019 8:32 am
by FlyingPenguin
So sorry to hear. Thanks for updating us Darcy. I was kind of afraid we'd never know when the end came. Glad you're on FB with the family. My love and prayers go out to them.

I met John in person 10 years ago when he invited me to attend the 2009 Techno Security conference in Myrtle Beach with him. Had a great time. This was before he retired from the Public Defender's office. John is very knowledgeable and has a great personality.

Dug through my photo album this morning to find the one photo my wife took of John & I together during the conference. For those of you who may have never met John, here's a face to go with the name:

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Re: The doctors have run lots of tests on me and the news is not good.

Posted: Tue Jun 25, 2019 1:30 am
by Losbot
Thanks for the update. Wish the news was better. I'll be keeping him in my thoughts.

Re: The doctors have run lots of tests on me and the news is not good.

Posted: Tue Jun 25, 2019 1:44 pm
by Err
Thank You for the update.

Re: The doctors have run lots of tests on me and the news is not good.

Posted: Wed Jun 26, 2019 8:50 am
by darcy
I will pass along your thoughts and prayers,,,thank you,,
That is a great photo of you and John, Bob : ) ,, and I don't rightly know why I was invited to join John's private FBK page set up especially for his situation, but glad I was ,, he was always pleasant, kind, and helpful ,,, and as you say,, at least we are not all wondering of what is going on,,.

Re: The doctors have run lots of tests on me and the news is not good.

Posted: Wed Jun 26, 2019 9:33 am
by darcy
Elmdea posted this just an hour ago:

"Thank you for whatever you have been doing. John has been more alert and present these past few days. Please continue if you can. ".

FP, may I post that pic of you two for Elmdea?

Re: The doctors have run lots of tests on me and the news is not good.

Posted: Wed Jun 26, 2019 9:56 am
by FlyingPenguin
Sure!

Re: The doctors have run lots of tests on me and the news is not good.

Posted: Wed Jun 26, 2019 1:03 pm
by darcy
Thank you :)

Re: The doctors have run lots of tests on me and the news is not good.

Posted: Wed Jun 26, 2019 2:08 pm
by Executioner
Thanks for the updates.

Re: The doctors have run lots of tests on me and the news is not good.

Posted: Wed Jun 26, 2019 5:22 pm
by darcy
FlyingPenguin wrote:Sure!
Done.
Elmdea replied: "John often speaks of that meeting and meeting Bob in real life. It was and is a treasured memory."

Re: The doctors have run lots of tests on me and the news is not good.

Posted: Wed Jun 26, 2019 9:46 pm
by reno
darcy you a special angel to more pcabusers then you know . thank for keeping us all informed -John is on all are thoughts !

Re: The doctors have run lots of tests on me and the news is not good.

Posted: Wed Jun 26, 2019 10:37 pm
by darcy
I did let Elmdea know that they're both in our thoughts and prayers, Reno : )